Jul 16 2008
I’ve had three friends in the past week ask me where my blog is. Why did they do that? Cleary because I’m unbelieveably popular, and they like me very much.
Sadly, I don’t believe that. I think it’s actually because they want to laugh at me more regularly than they already do. See, I’m a mother of five kids. That means my life is a) necessarily funny and b) a comfort to others. In this, my first blog post, we’ll explore each of these ideas. Did you notice that I said “we” as though other people will be reading? Confidence, that.
Let’s look first at Necessarily Funny
Necessarily = unavoidably… Yep, can’t be helped that my life is funny. My husband and I didn’t mean to have 5 kids. Seriously. Yeah, I know what you’re thinking, but it really wasn’t entirely our fault.
Here’s what happened. We adopted our oldest daughter, Abby, as an infant in 1998. She was just so darn great that we made the grave error a few years later of seeking a second child through adoption. Very long story short, the agency called and did the “is there any way…” and “would you ever consider…” thing, played on our mushy, malleable hearts and, voila!, in 2003 we came home with not one, but two more kids, Ian and Aden. Then, in a weak moment, we thought a biological child would be a fantastic addition. One more, that’s all, then we’re done. And along came our twin boys, Cai and Cael, in 2006.
So here we are. We only had kids three times, but we managed to end up with five kids. And let me tell you, that is a LOT of kids.
To be fair, one kid is a lot of kids, too. Five just makes life funnier. And don’t tell me that funnier’s not a word until you’ve yelled things at your kids like, “Put down that urinal cake!” and “The dog is not a napkin!”
One of the proverbial friends who asked me this week where to find my blog was explaining about her friends’ beautiful blogs full of their perfect, beautiful children. She asked me when someone is going to write a blog with pictures of poop smeared all over their kids’ rooms. It got me to thinking. I’m just the girl for the task. Which leads me to…
Why my life is a Comfort to Others
Have you ever watched that TLC show John and Kate Plus Eight? I watch it sometimes when it doesn’t completely stress me out. Whenever I can manage that delicate balance, I come away with the awesome realization that someone out there somewhere has a life crazier than mine. It comforts me. It’s schadenfreude, a.k.a. the largely unanticipated delight in the suffering of another.
Read. Laugh. Be comforted. This is not your life. It’s mine. There may be the ever-present possibility of smearing of poop upon my walls, but, dang it, they’re my walls, and I love the little poopers.